I told my mom I don't tell her everything because she tells her husband everything. This might be a really big AH move from me because my mom loves me and I used to tell her everything and her husband isn't a bad guy, I just don't feel the same about him as I do my parents. And I'm making my mom feel bad and I know that.I was also getting out of a physically and financially abusive marriage. My half brother got two cars in two years straight following that "prank". It's not a prank it's cruelty. He swore up and down it was my mom's fault that he couldn't do it. It didn't matter I just didn't talk to them for years and found ways to survive.AITA for my reaction to my son coming out. No A-holes here. I know the title sounds bad but plz bare with me. My son Will is 19 and in his first year at uni. I have had a suspition he was gay for a while so it came as no surprise to me when he told me. Im really not bothered one bit& I love him regardless. Since starting uni he made a really ...Yesterday my son comes by my house incredibly upset saying that his ex girlfriend came to see them. She said she was sorry for leaving like she did and just wanted to see him and her daughter. My son said he told her not to come back and shut the door on her. He was practically in tears telling me this. I told him he needed to calm down and act ...The post “AITA For Telling My Son It’s Not My Fault That He [Messed] Up And He Can’t Blame Me” first appeared on Bored Panda. A parent-child argument ensues when a person refuses to pay ...Yes. You walked out on your wife AND son. I don't know why people don't understand that if you cheat, you cheat on your whole family. When you walk out, you walk out on your whole family.AITA for telling my son I'm disappointed in him? My son (23M) had a rough time. During his teenage years, he fell in with a bad crowd, and struggled with addiction despite my (49M) and my wife's (47F) attempts to get him clean. During his 20s he finally started working on himself, and has now been clean for over a year, and recently gotten a ...It’s been more than six months since the IRS started sending out the initial round. Get top content in our free newsletter. Thousands benefit from our email every week. Join here. ...My issue was with OP saying that he'd always support her decisions but then telling her that he would be disappointed in her decisions. To me, teaching a kid you'll support them means you'll encourage them in their endeavours, even if you personally don't agree with them.My phones blowing tf up since with wedding attendees asking me wtf happened and why the wedding might be off now. My girlfriend has reaffirmed to me that I did nothing wrong, but I've had people from all sides saying I stuck my nose where it didn't belong, and caused a stink, which is really fucking with my head. AITA?r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.I had my MIL/FIL/ex fill out the birth certificate for my son while I was asleep. They convinced the nursing staff that I was a "psychotic drug abuser prostitute" and they "wanted to save the baby". How they did this I have no idea, but they told people this same story about me for literal years.AITA for telling my son i'd rather have his ex wife as a daughter than him as my son after he got cut out of the will . ... so when they divorced 7 years ago due to my son cheating, I was conflicted and disappointed. Josie wasn't particularly close with any of her family, so My husband and I naturally took them in. Josie was an angel, she ...We have three bedrooms. My husband and I have the master bedroom and our son (16) has the second largest one. These two rooms are really LARGE. The third room is not small per se but in comparison to the other two it is. Also to small for two people (and a baby). My Son had the smallest room until his sister moved out two years ago.I'm glad that you have supportive grandparents & I'm so sorry for how you have been treated. You're NTA, but your dad & stepmother sure are. It's ironic that she's calling you selfish & saying that you can miss your high school graduation as well as claiming that you're trying to deny her daughter a dad when her kid could either just have her mom be there or miss her thing for once instead of ...Tell her you're disappointed in her for marrying a man who's son enjoys seeing you your friends get bullied. Tell her you're disappointed that they expect you to change your step brother, you a kid, a minor. Tell her your disappointed in her and your step dad that they haven't put your step brother in therapy and/or peer/group counseling.Father here. I entirely expect the mother of my kids not to tell me things that my kids tell her in confidence. I can respect that she would tell me if there were an overriding concern or reason of health or safety and live happily in the knowledge that my kids know they have people they can trust to tell things in secretExceptions can be made if they have to work or if the couple can easily afford an uber, or if the pickup is at a very early (before 7) or late hour (after 10). "But I want to sleep in" is a lame excuse and a sign of a selfish partner. It says "you're not really that important to me.".When I got out and saw my son I immediately started yelling at him. Saying how he has disappointed me and has completely disgusted me, I wanted a written apology, sent to the student he harrased and I would be taking all of his electronics, he will be doing a hefty amount of chores and will be telling his father (who has shared custody with me ...My girlfriend was over and my son stopped by to return some power tools. They saw eachother and before I could introduce her my son said a this is the bitch. We got in a huge argument and I told him his mother would have been disappointed in him, that he needs to show basic respect to my girlfriend.My stepson gets a trust but the remaining 90 percent would go to my son. But I feel torn because I really do not know what is right anymore. After a heart to heart, I changed my will so that my wife, stepson, and my son would each have 1/3 of the business. The rest of my will remained the same.You literally telling him you are disappointed in him says nothing about him, but a whole lot about yourself! That is a hurtful and disgusting thing to do to someone that's obviously just trying to do his best in life, plus that is your son you're talking about..He screamed at me that I was supposed to give him at least one son because I killed his first one. That's when I burst into tears. I had been so broken up about our son's stillbirth and a part of me had felt it was my fault, and now he my husband was, the love of my life, telling me that it was. My brother immediately stepped in and tried to ...AITA for telling my son's babysitter not to give him any snacks? : r/redditonwiki. r/redditonwiki. r/redditonwiki. • 3 mo. ago. rhyejay.AITA for kicking my parents out of my house due to mean comments towards my son about his personality . ... it damages self-esteem and invalidates your children. As you and your son know (and love how he cares for her) endometriosis is not about willpower, nor is his lovely personality a flaw. ... and would been tempted to tell them to call my ...Jan 29, 2024 | 6:42 PM. ADVERTISING. "AITA for telling my mom I am not comfortable with the speech she wants me to give at her wedding and I won't give it?" My mom is engaged to a guy called George and they want their wedding to symbolize the creating of a new family unit with me (15f) and mom and George and his three kids (ages 8, 6 and 5).Long backstory: I have 2 daughters, Anna (elder)and Carly (younger) who are a year apart. Carly and Anna were close when they were younger but drifted apart in their teenage years. I think she started resenting Carly because Carly always seemed to do well, academically and socially. Anna decided to take loans and go to a college she wasn't ...YTA. don’t ask later on “why doesn’t my son talk to me anymore” this is the reason. If my child ever told me she was scared to tell me something I’d be falling over myself trying to make it up to her, not kick her out. You betrayed the love your son has/had for you. Do better as a dad.The cost of treatment drained my parent's finances and it was just dad and me after mom died. No extended family. Dad started dating when I was 12 and he met Jane. After a few months he told me her son had a form of brain cancer and was very sick and that they were getting married and he would be helping to take care of her son.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I went to my mother after I found out that my brother organized a slumber party without invited my son.you do what you got to do in regards to your brother. he hurt you deeply with his accusations. that does not go away with apologies. tell your mom that you need time and that "I'm sorry" does not begin to heal the deep wound he gave you. Reply reply. ArtisticComplaint394. •. Also I just want to say that he IS an idiot.MsGibberish. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my sons girlfriend I wont watch their (her baby)? Not the A-hole. My 21 year old son moved out of my house almost 6 weeks ago. He met a nice young lady a month ago. She was 9 months pregnant when they met. She had her baby, beautiful little girl, and I am happy for them.I was also getting out of a physically and financially abusive marriage. My half brother got two cars in two years straight following that "prank". It's not a prank it's cruelty. He swore up and down it was my mom's fault that he couldn't do it. It didn't matter I just didn't talk to them for years and found ways to survive.My daughter-in-law is pregnant with my first grandchild. She is suffering from placenta preavia. She is on bedrest. It would be dangerous for her to have sex. So my asshole son decided that he should cheat. She found out and kicked him out of the house. He came to stay with us because "she was having crazy pregnancy hormones".My mom tried to talk to my younger daughter about the competition, but she wasn't responsive. At the end of the meal, we were all stuffed except for youngest. My dad told everyone to pick a dessert to go, except for youngest because "she's clearly not hungry." I asked my dad to leave her alone, and he did, but she was already upset.My mom tried to talk to my younger daughter about the competition, but she wasn't responsive. At the end of the meal, we were all stuffed except for youngest. My dad told everyone to pick a dessert to go, except for youngest because "she's clearly not hungry." I asked my dad to leave her alone, and he did, but she was already upset.I'm glad that you have supportive grandparents & I'm so sorry for how you have been treated. You're NTA, but your dad & stepmother sure are. It's ironic that she's calling you selfish & saying that you can miss your high school graduation as well as claiming that you're trying to deny her daughter a dad when her kid could either just have her mom be there or miss her thing for once instead of ...Alex started dating Stella (35F), a lovely girl, around 4.5 years ago, and from the get go she seemed to politely dislike me, idk why, oh well c'est la vie. Alex and Stella moved across the country in 2021 after Stella earned a promotion at work, In 2022 Alex proposed, she said yes, and they set a wedding date for the end of September 2023. I ...Jan 29, 2024 | 6:42 PM. ADVERTISING. "AITA for telling my mom I am not comfortable with the speech she wants me to give at her wedding and I won't give it?" My mom is engaged to a guy called George and they want their wedding to symbolize the creating of a new family unit with me (15f) and mom and George and his three kids (ages 8, 6 and 5).My son had been playing with water again the second I turned my back. I put him in his room for time out and after, I told him he needed to give his sister a hug and tell her he was sorry because it was his fault that she got hurt. I told him that I had warned him that someone could slip and fall and he didn't listen to me so his sister was hurt.1. he's a TA, not a teacher, just as he had expressed, it is not his job to 'discipline' students. which brings me to 2. while he is working, his brother is not his brother, he's his student. in a professional setting, ESPECIALLY in a school, you cannot treat people differently because they're family. 3.My 4 year old son is diagnosed with a mental illness and considered disabled per SSA. I've had hospital visits, police reports filed to cover myself from abuse claims. It took me a little over a year to get a diagnosis. My son is happy, healthy and safe because of medication that you are saying can't be used to help violence and destruction.The kids ,especially my son, were ecstatic. That sort of made me ignore the lack of remorse for the time being. That same night after putting my kids to bed I told her we need to have a serious discussion. I told her how I felt about everything she did. The fact that she knows about my health condition and still went through with it.AITA for refusing to babysit last minute and r’uining the parent's important plans because their sons seemed older than they said they were?AITA for telling my son i'd rather have his ex wife as a daughter than him as my son after he got cut out of the will . ... so when they divorced 7 years ago due to my son cheating, I was conflicted and disappointed. Josie wasn't particularly close with any of her family, so My husband and I naturally took them in. Josie was an angel, she ...DumbestManEver. •. No what I'm saying: 1) OP made their son cry in response to an admission that he was in love with another man: 2) OP came here to ask for judgment based on the totality of that exchange with their son. Yes OP is trying, but asked if they were an AH in the interaction.I posted several weeks ago about a situation in which I felt that my parents were trying to replace my brother (Dan) with my husband (Jeff). I want to first express my gratitude for everyone who commented and messaged me. I was raised in an unhealthy environment and as such I was very out of touch with what normal family dynamics and boundaries ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my son's teacher I wouldn't give her details why my son was going to miss class and take a zero because she and her son are gossip queensMy dad missed a lot of my first 5 years because of the Army Reserves and a brutal job. So much so that my mom was basically a single mom to a teenager and a toddler. But whenever he could, he would take me for the day. Instead of going to daycare/preschool, I'd stay home with him and we'd run errands.This. It's a reality check. If you have kids, you're responsible for them. You don't just get to check out and hope for the best. I have a crapton of mental health issues but I get my ass out of bed to let my dog out, feed her, give her medications, etc. And while she is the joy of my life, she is a dog.My husband went to pick him up to calm him down, and my son started crying and screaming that he wanted me. My husband felt really upset about this and likely embarrassed because it was infront of others. So he kept trying to calm my son down. I offered to take my son and calm him down but my husband refused, insisting he could do it on his on ...