Baby #3 has heart problems. My husband said every time he went to lay him down the oxygen monitor would go off. The thing is Husband didn't figure out was baby #3 hates anything on his face. So you have to rock him to sleep then carefully put the oxygen on his nose. My aunt said that my husband called her the first night around midnight.We were at a small house party with a few friends of mine from college and we were discussing books we've all read, when at one point one of my friends (let's call him Steve) asks Will, "So Will, what's your favorite book?" and my husband responds, "Oh, I really like To Kill A Mockingbird.". Then Steve gives him a quizzical look ...I guess my pain and my marriage just isn't important. He now is on board with divorce since I hurt his "friend. So reddit, AITA for 1. Being angry my husband is texting I love you's to another woman 2. Demanding he cease contact with this woman and 3. informing her husband of their private messages. -broken.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my “brother” if his kids go hungry that’s his problem not mine. Not the A-hole. Throwaway My English is a work in progress so just a warning. I’ll call my “brother” mike and my ex Tammy. 10 years ago my than fiancé left me at the alter (most humiliating thing I’ve ever been through) and went on our ...People cross-post stories for a chance that our podcast hosts (Sean, John and Josh) will read the story on the show. Before the podcast started reading reddit stories, the hosts would choose a topic and research it using Wikipedia. AITA for telling my husband to go f himself.Read this before contacting the mod team. My husband (27M) and myself (28M) have had a pretty rough year financially. We moved to a new city, and both ended up taking lower paying jobs than usual, and have had a hard time budgeting with our new salaries. So, for Christmas we promised we would cut back on gifts for each other, setting a $50 ...On the ride home I call my wife and suggest that I just bring my friends over to my house instead, that way I can help with the baby whenever she needs me to and I'll still get to hang out with my friends whenever I'm not needed by her. She says that she doesn't want people over, and we hang up. At this point I'm mad.Even if my husband made all the money in the world? I still wouldn't want to stay at home. I love my work, but don't particularly care for housework. Not every working mom is working because their husband doesn't make enough cash, and even if you make a cool million there's no guarantee you'll have a stay at home wife.My cousin got with her husband by him cheating on his then wife. My cousin is always shocked and upset each and every time he cheated on her. She would fuss about it on Facebook and I almost spit out my drink when her husband's ex chimed in and reminded my cousin that she got him by his cheating and kept losing him by it.I love my brother a lot, but he knows that if he had ever made a move in one of my girlfriends, he would have ceased to be a brother to me, and that's only the beginning of it. Luckily my brother and I are way better than that. I would have forfeited the love of my life for him if I knew he was in love with her first, just because is him.My husband and I recently moved into the same city as his childhood best friend "Steve". Steve is allergic to all nuts, legumes and soy. Because of this, my husband wants our house to have a rule that we're not to have nuts in the house in case he comes over. I think this is a dumb rule and refuse to comply. I did agree to keep my nut-based ...In my home country the custom is for the man's family to pay the woman's family, and they also have to pay for the wedding, buy a house for the couple, etc. I'm not sure what that's called in English. I find it problematic either way the money/gifts go - it sets up the relationship as transactional, which is ripe for abuse.My ex just nodded to what I was saying, and asked if he could see our daughter. I was a bit hesitant, but said yes, and called my sister to have her bring our daughter down to the living room. My ex held our daughter, and talked to the baby for a bit before leaving. My sister asked me if I was alright after he was gone, and I told her I was okay.AITA for not sharing my prize money with my husband. My husband and I have been married for 10 years, we are not in the US. A few weeks ago I saw a competition that we would both qualify for and told him about it. He said he wasn't interested in it, so I said I would do submissions for both of us anyway to increase my chances of winning.Objective-Pen2383. ADMIN MOD. AITA For Telling My Daughter if She Keeps Her Pregnancy I'm Kicking Her Out. I live alone with my 20 year old daughter. My wife/ her mother died back in 2021 and I've been really struggling staying on top of the bills and barely have been able to keep us afloat. My daughter can't hold down a job, she quits or ...Me & my husband also had a long dating period but we decided on getting married after a year - we just didn't have the money (weddings are super expensive …One could only hope it’s a shitpost, but young widows/widowers get really really strange comments. I mean my mother in law said about a week after my husband passed that I was a single mom now and should try and get all the support I could. I can’t imagine anyone calling an older widow single or anything, you just say they are a widow ...When her brother needed help, it's I who gave him money. Why? Because they are MY in-laws, and he's MY brother-in-law. I think it's my responsibility to look after their parents. She thinks it's her responsibility to look after mine in another way. It's absolutely NOT one-sided on my part. My wife Lisa and I have been together for a while.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: got mad at my husband for using my money that I'd given him to hold onto, not to keep and use 2) we're married and we should be a team, which can mean supporting each other financially at times. Help keep the sub engaging!Baby #3 has heart problems. My husband said every time he went to lay him down the oxygen monitor would go off. The thing is Husband didn't figure out was baby #3 hates anything on his face. So you have to rock him to sleep then carefully put the oxygen on his nose. My aunt said that my husband called her the first night around midnight.I was in bed for four days with a fever ranging from 103-106 (Fahrenheit), plus chills, body aches and vomiting. It was awful. My husband, to his credit, did take care of me. He took a day off of work when he needed to, took care of the kids (14, 6, 4 and 1) solo and made sure I was staying hydrated, asked if I needed anything, etc….According to my sister in law #1 who witnessed it he yelled at his mother and berated her and caller her names then disowned her which shocked everyone in the house. My mother in law is diabetic she fainted on the spot and my husband didn't stop he just walked out of there while his family were yelling at him.My wife immediately screamed at her "shut the fuck up and let me eat or leave". My mom threw the hand towel, grabbed her stuff and left. I was so hurt by the both of them. I told my wife she was a liar. She told me she would let me handle it and she didn't. Instead she made my mom leave.Read this before contacting the mod team. My husband (27M) and myself (28M) have had a pretty rough year financially. We moved to a new city, and both ended up taking lower paying jobs than usual, and have had a hard time budgeting with our new salaries. So, for Christmas we promised we would cut back on gifts for each other, setting a $50 ...I suggested he ask his Aunt for $160k, or list it on the market. My husband didn't inherit the house, he bought it from his grandparents for full appraisal value. He still owes $90k on the house. He is flat out refusing to renegotiate, and said I'm too money hungry. Last year my husband barely made $30k at work, so we could potentially get ...The route of “tell my husband to quit his longstanding family activity or get 3 working adults to change a long-fixed schedule” is pretty bold. But when you boil down the root cause to “a 9 year old doesn’t like being around their step-siblings”, that family need to work that out with those kids.So, Anyways! My husband and I took 2 weeks off work to go visit some places out of the country - tourism in other words. Thing is I was the one who saved up for and arranged for the trip (my husband was responsible for booking the tickets). My husband's mom wanted to come along and threw temper tantrums when I said no. She called, texted, sent ...AITA telling my ex husband I won't 'babysit' my daughter. My ex-husband and I divorced about 4 years ago. I have taken a couple vacations with the kids since the divorce, he went on one trip with them, which was cancelled after 1 day due to a hurricane. He makes a LOT of snide remarks about how much I pay for the vacations, but I live a ...In the present my FIL has unfortunately passed away and my BIL has made it quite clear he doesn't want any money from my husband but my husband still thinks I was in the wrong for saying what he should do the money. So AITA? Edit: To be clear, my BIL was always included in the will. Him, my husband and their sister all got a third. My husband ...AITA- Husband broke something of mine- I think he should pay for it. My husband got me a diecast motorbike about 6 years ago of my favourite motorbike. It was lovingly looked after on my desk at my old job and then again when I went to working from home. In January, I managed to knock it off of its shelf and I was absolutely gutted.AITA for telling my husband my ex and I traveled to 56 countries together? I (44F) am turning 45 August 3rd. Two months ago my husband of 5 years (45M) surprised me and said he booked us a 10 day vacation to Italy. We leave July 28th. My husband is a special ed middle school teacher so school is out until September.Nah you made an assumption it was wrong. Unless you specifically stated you would not have kids with him then he's not wrong to assume that's on the cards. If you were positive you were never going to have more kids I'm confused why you wouldn't have that conversation before marriage.Tim and Jona have a 5yo and 3 day old (boys). My labor went a lot smoother than hers did. She ended up needing a emergency hysterectomy, as she was bleeding out on the L/D bed. They came home last night. Now, when they got home Tim called my husband down to smoke a joint and when he got back upstairs, he told me that Tim had asked him for a favor.I told my husband that we would be going to the mall and that we would be back late. When we got back home my husband greeted us and had ordered takeout. His sister was there as well already chowing down. My husband and I went to the kitchen to get something to drink while his sister talked to my kids.The $15,000 she wants is lot of money. Your mom marrying a man who does not respect you and ignores your requests to stop is not someone you want around you & your family. This is just another story of a weak woman putting a bad man above her family. Don’t give mom a penny for her wedding. Stand your ground OP!HELL NO!!! You owe your husband's friend nothing!!!! Tell your husband that you not anyone's servant and they can get someone else to do it!!!AITA for telling my husband I won't cook for him again if he chose to eat his coworker's meal over mine. Not the A-hole Hear me out. My husband (Jesse, 31) has been bringing home meals that his female coworker (Nelly) cook for him. Now I'm not the best cook and Jesse's made it clear but he still eats what I cook everyday.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my "brother" if his kids go hungry that's his problem not mine. Not the A-hole. Throwaway My English is a work in progress so just a warning. I'll call my "brother" mike and my ex Tammy. 10 years ago my than fiancé left me at the alter (most humiliating thing I've ever been through) and went on our ...UPDATE. UPDATE: AITA for "hiding" my saving from my fiancé. My fiancé and I have spent the last week talking a lot about this. We started talking about it the day after my post. There was actually a lot to talk about, because she had a lot of thoughts and feelings. When we started talking I told her about the post very quickly.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.We all go through phases and pick up annoying habits, and sometimes we just need our loved ones to gently tell us if we've picked up a particularly egregious habit. Sometime in the last year, my husband has picked up a habit where he talks like a baby. At first it was funny, but passed into embarrassing, cringeworthy behavior quickly.It was a confident, high-powered investment firm with credit lines at top financial institutions. It made big bets using borrowed money to buy assets and generate higher returns. B...When I presented the plans to my husband he said that we could go to more cities in Italy and he could help me edit pictures for my photography blog. However, he also said that he needed to have meetings and do administrative housekeeping and he needed to do it in person. I was disappointed and he got upset and asked me to stop rolling my eyes. I told …Ok this is my first ever post, and honestly I'm at a loss I don't know if I'm right or wrong at this point. I came home from work tonight and my husband told me as soon as I got in the door, our son who's 20 and has a pretty bad drug problem and no longer lives at home because or has anything to do with me, and barely talks to his dad because of it.ADMIN MOD. AITA for checking my daughters' bags after my husband packed them? Asshole. My (36F) husband (39M) and I are going on a brief vacation with our daughters (twins, 5 yo). I was busy at work getting things done before I had to go away, and when I came home I saw that my husband had already packed our girls' bags, which is something ...The husband has no concept of boundaries after a lifetime of a mother and sisters like OP is describing. He can't have any boundaries of his own with them, that possibility was browbeaten out of him long ago, so now he thinks it's perfectly normal to ignore his wife's boundaries for herself and their baby.If you're interested in knowing what your husband's financial situation is, you can inspect his credit report, sometimes known as running a credit check. While you cannot simply ru...AITA for telling my husband he was wrong for sleeping at someone's house without telling me? AITA- Me (38F) and hubby (37M) have been married 4 years now. ... but he wasn't sure 100%. Also, money was low so he didn't think it would be affordable. The day he got the confirmation email of his new appointment at the embassy, he left in the ...After we got married, I moved into his on a temporary basis while we sold mine, and then we used the money from mine and a loan on the value of his to buy a new house together - after which we sold his and used that money to pay off the loan. I don't remember ever asking to see the deed for my husband's house before I married him either. We ...Me & my husband also had a long dating period but we decided on getting married after a year - we just didn't have the money (weddings are super expensive when you have a big family). So we worked hard, bought a house & only after we had some extra money we had a very small ceremony. Overall we "dated" for 8 years & got married on …So I finally straight up told her she will never have as happy a marriage with him as I have with my love. Specifically because she married someone who doesnt even like her, much less love her. I told her she can't change trash into gold by force & to have a marriage like mine she needs a husband like mine.I've been married to my 2nd Husband "Mike" for 4 years now. He's a jokester and loves to crack jokes all the time. He especially like to joke with my brother "Ethan" and his wife. Ethan used to be okay with it til he started complaining about Mike taking it too far with his jokes. Some context about Ethan.AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? (r/AmITheAsshole)Source: Zealousideal_Fly4786 on Reddit (link removed because YouTube keeps dinging me for lin...I (32 female) and my husband (38 male) We've been married for 10 years. For the context, I lived in a family so poor that we often lacked the most basic things (like food)and I have had after-effects, like Joey in Friends, Alice doesn't share food !!! My husband thinks that food should be shared and most of the time, I manage to control myself ...My suggestions here is to do 2 things: Tell his parents that you guys don't really have the money and that your husband is giving all your extra money to them due to some sort of insecurity. Tell your husband you will be telling his parents this, also. Set up a house hold budget that includes 3 bank accounts.So earlier today I (28F) told my husband(30M) he needs to make more money, especially if we want to start a family. We were texting at work and I was just kinda casually telling him we need to make more money (especially living in Silicon Valley). I also told him "im waiting on you..Having a kids is in your hands…My grandma took me to get ice cream and I explained everything. What happened in my last post as well as everything else that's been going on this past year. She agrees with a lot of you guys that my mom is probably being abused and needs help. We're looking into options for groups and stuff that'll help her out, though my grandma's doing most ...I had a miscarriage on Christmas while staying with my parents. I had to tell my parents what was going on, and it was awkward enough. I can’t imagine having to explain to my in-laws that I had a ton of bloody mucous coming out of my vagina, let alone some stranger. OP’s husband needs to kick his friend out. This is not a time for houseguests.My wife was ordered to go to anger management, therapy, and parenting classes. Ava was brought back to us 3 times but every time she was brought back she'd run away or raise hell until she got to stay with her aunt. My wife's sister got full custody because of that. My wife has been trying to fix her relationship with Ava since the incident.I'm putting my daughter's and my health first and won't let her be sidelined. My husband agreed and left. However, Anna called me later and said that I was being controlling and she'd never met someone as cruel as me for not letting a father see his baby. I told her that my husband made his decision and that this was his doing not mine.I guess my pain and my marriage just isn't important. He now is on board with divorce since I hurt his "friend. So reddit, AITA for 1. Being angry my husband is texting I love you's to another woman 2. Demanding he cease contact with this woman and 3. informing her husband of their private messages. -broken.I had a miscarriage on Christmas while staying with my parents. I had to tell my parents what was going on, and it was awkward enough. I can’t imagine having to explain to my in-laws that I had a ton of bloody mucous coming out of my vagina, let alone some stranger. OP’s husband needs to kick his friend out. This is not a time for houseguests.Sometimes going back to school to earn a first or second bachelor’s degree, postgraduate degree or college certificate seems like the best way to move careers forward. If your husb...